The Chronicles of Dating

It was supposed to be grown. But what I found was inconsistent communication, romantic delusion, and holy conviction.

This isn’t a dating advice column. It’s a series of stories — some hilarious, some heartbreaking — about what happens when a woman who knows her worth still has to wrestle with how to guard it.

From red flags to almosts, ghosting to growth… welcome to my chronicles.

I started dating again with hope and a little bit of naivety — and I walked headfirst into a field of lessons, unlearning, and absolutely nots.

The Chronicles of Dating is where I write about:

  • How trauma can flirt
  • What boundaries look like in real time
  • When to walk away
  • And how God whispers in the middle of it all

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Red Flag Warnings Are Real

Because justifying behavior isn’t discernment.

What In The Grown Woman?!

Those dates that made me rethink dating altogether

Boundaries In Dating

When “no” is holy. And sometimes hard.

This space is real, unfiltered, and sometimes heavy.

If this stirred something in you — pause and pray. Or take a walk. Come back when you’re ready.
These stories aren’t about shaming my past. They’re about showing how healing looks in real life.

Rooted in purpose and unfolding in grace, 💛
Sharmain